a good vegan meal of lentil stew and brown rice
A few months ago I decided to begin eating vegan. I love the purity of the vegan diet. No meat, no dairy, no cheese, no eggs, no animal products of any kind. To me, it wasn’t about what I was saying no to, but what I was saying yes to. Whole grains, gobs of vegetables, nuts, seeds, beans and legumes which is basically the foundation of every anti-cancer, anti-heart disease (both run in my Dad’s side of the family), anti-whatever-is-bad-for-you diet. But becoming vegan right before our Summer travels made me a little nervous. Would I be able to keep it up? Find good food? I have to be honest, being vegan is not that hard at home when you can control the ingredients coming in your house, but outside of the home it is harder. The biggest hurdles? Surprisingly, for me they are butter and honey. Vegans don’t eat honey because it comes from an animal- therefore an animal product. I’m on the fence with that one, because I really like honey and truly believe that raw local honey can be a good, even health beneficial replacement for refined sugar. And butter is not that big of a deal because I buy non-dairy butter, but eating out I realize that pretty much everything is probably cooked with a little butter. Even being as safe as I can and ordering vegetables, beans and a potato out at a restaurant, I’m pretty certain the veggies were cooked with butter and the potato comes with butter already on it. I could ask for no butter, but then my taste-buds might stage a revolt against me. I mean, I want to eat yummy things too. That being said, I haven’t even ventured into my travels yet. So, I have to admit, I have some confessions to make…
So far I love eating vegan, I love how fresh, light and satisfying vegan meals can be, but besides not always having access to vegan meals when eating out, there is something else. There is, of course, the desire to throw away all my convictions and pull up a chair to a plate of something meaty, buttery and cheesy. As far as traveling goes, I was doing pretty well. I brought some vegan snacks with me for the plane (peanut butter, vegan granola bars, crackers) and even requested a vegan meal for the plane ride (which wasn’t too bad actually, although too spicy) but when I arrived in Scotland, I was weary, tired and very hungry from traveling and just wanted a comforting meal, I didn’t really care what it was. I underestimated my relationship with food. No matter how much we try to distance ourselves emotionally from what we eat, I’m convinced it can’t be done. Eating is as much a social, emotionally, and cultural event, as it is a physical one. Sometimes a salad and some beans just won’t cut it when you need something deeply warming and filling. So the first week I was here I wasn’t really sticking to a vegan diet. At first I was more vegetarian since I incorporated butter and dairy (Dairy inside of food that is) but one night I even sat down to a fish dinner with my husband! Now I really don’t have a lot of bad things to say about meat, fish and dairy. I like them. I have just chosen to not eat them so I can focus on eating other good for you foods, but it had been so long since I had incorporated them into my diet, that it actually made my stomach hurt for a while. So back to being vegan as much as I can.
Although traveling vegan can be tricky, I have had some small successes. I’ve learned that if I see something on the menu that I like I can ask the waiter if they would leave off the cheese or something else to make it vegan, and I’ve never had anyone say no. Yesterday I went into this cute little cafe. It was so lovely. Scones and cakes looked delicious under the glass. Organic goodies were everywhere. Tea and coffee were being made in the back. I asked her if any of the treats were vegan. She said no, but that she would bake something vegan this week and told me to come back! I talked to her a little bit and turns out she was trying out being vegetarian for 30 days. How awesome is that? Of course this was a little, privately owned shop- you probably couldn’t walk into a Starbucks and get that same kind of service.
So there you are. I’m a vegan who sometimes eats butter or cheese and even meat…I am still passionate about a vegan lifestyle, but it’s hard living in a world that revolves around meat and cheese. And I don’t want to become a social outcast for the sake of my food choices. If I’m hungry and there is truly nothing vegan around (although that is almost never the case, you can always find something vegan) you can bet I am going to eat something anyway. I love this quote from Alicia Silverstone’s The Kind Diet on being vegan, “It’s a journey, not a destination,” and I always remember that.